My purpose is to the parents and kids to know what happen to me and be aware.
I`m not a counselor for kids or adults, i`m a 14 yrs. old kid and my name is Robert Mentzy.
I`m not looking for attention or simpathy from no body cuz i have it from my parents, family and friends.
That`s why i add few links for different kind of needs.
If you think you are a gay boy, go to Amar`s world. There you`ll find help, guidance, knowledge and support.
Over all a lot of love and acceptance. Just the love around Amar`s family is enough for any teen to heal, gay or not.
Your a kid, teen or abuse adult. There are two links, one for adults and the other for a youth pastor that will listen to you and will put you on track to get help. He`s been a counselor for more than 12 yrs. and have a lot of experience.
I understand my story is sad, but understand that i`m sharing it exactly for this reason, to try to shook parents and kids in a way that you open your eyes and be aware if you don`t want to see as a parent, your kid going for what i`m going through, and as a kid to trust no body cuz could happen to you. Well, not to trust NO body, but learn how to be careful and protect your self.
When i do webcams, i don`t do counseling, i just share what happen to me with the kids and i choose no moderation for the question, i want any kid to ask me even i have to hug cas first getting encouragement to answer, cuz cas is by my side always and the kids got a lot of questions for him too. The same for the phone calls and emails. I learn from my therapist from church what steps tell the kids they take and do if they are in a dangerous situation, encourage them to tell some body if they`re been abused and that`s it.
I got a chat box in my blog, please, use it to leave a short message, not to have a long conversation with another person, use emails or cell phones, made a blog and have a chat box. I hope not to have now a bunch of offended ADULTS and a bunch of comments every body blaming on their self and sending excuses and apologies for this reason, cuz i swear i`ll better take the chat box down. You need to share something long, doit through the comments. I`m just too fragile emotionally for the pressure is causing me to deal with adult emotional issues, i`m not a psychologist or noting like it, i`m a 14 yrs. old kid that know nothing about life yet.
Don`t thing that because i`m saying this mean that i`m not appreciate your support, prayers and love, cuz is not the case. That`s why i title this one "hope all you to understand". People, is just common sense.
I will appreciate your understanding and support in this.
Hope not to sound rude, cuz is NOT my intention.
I just need to heal.
Thanks.
Love you all.
rob
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